sleep transitions

I must admit there is almost nothing that stresses me out more as a mother than dealing with sleeping issues.    Thankfully Max and Maya have been pretty good sleepers and I really shouldn't complain about...although it doesn't stop me.

In the past few months the kids have dealt with several big changes at sleep time....

1. Getting rid of the pacifiers
2. Moving into toddler beds
3. Longer daylight hours
4. Getting older

After giving up the pacifers the kids had started having a hard time going to sleep at nap time.  So I started laying down with them to help them get to sleep.  For kids who had been put to bed awake, never rocked to sleep, I was surprised that they started to

About two or three weeks ago the kids also started having a hard time going to sleep at night.  Pre-sleep changes, on most days, we could put the kids in bed with a kiss and not see them again until morning.

I tried darkening the curtains.

We tried the Supernanny approach of entering the room and putting the kids back into their bed.  But it never seemed to help and it always seemed end with me getting upset and yelling (yes, I realize this is not part of the Suppernanny system)

A couple  of days ago I tried something new.

flying fox

Maya is a big fan of the flying fox at one of our local parks.  A flying fox is like a zip line for kids.  They have them at parks all over New Zealand.  I don't remember ever seeing anything like this in the states..at least not at a kid's park.   Here is our brave little Maya.

This photo gives you a better idea of the length of the zip line.  You can almost see the harbour bridge in the distance.  

two friends

We finally installed a temporary fence to keep the kids in the back yard.  I'm not sure why we didn't do it months ago.  I love telling the kids to go play outside with out having to worry about them running around the house, down the drive way and out onto the street.  They love being able to ride their bikes all the time and I think they really like being able spend time alone without me in the room.  

Being a mother of twins can be hard at times (motherhood, any way you do it is hard work).  While it is so much easier now than it was having two premature infants not sleeping through the night....now I am constantly worried about one of the kids letting go of my hand in a parking lot and running out in front of a car.  There are times that they keep each other awake at nap time or wake each other up too early.  The biting seems to have stopped only to be followed up by occasional hair pulling.  I can't even explain potty-training twins.  There are hours of chain screaming/crying....when one stops the other starts. 

Then there are moments like this......

I looked out the window yesterday afternoon and saw Max and Maya snuggled up next to each other happily eating apples.   A few minuets earlier Maya had come into the house and taken the apple I was eating.  I started another and within seconds she had taken that one too, so she could give it to her brother.  They then climbed on top of their play kitchen and perched themselves on the window sill together.

I am very lucky to be able to spend most of my time with these two beautiful children.  

orcas

Since moving to Auckland, we've heard stories from various people about seeing orcas in the Auckland Harbour. Well, today was our lucky day to get our own sighting. On the ferry ride home from work, Lonnie saw a pod of orcas from within a few hundred feet of the boat. When he arrived home and told me, we threw the kids in the car and drove in the direction of where the orcas were heading.

Sure enough, the orcas stayed fairly close to the shoreline, and we were able to spot them first from the road along Torpedo Bay in Devonport. We then drove up North Head to get a view as they swam out toward Rangitoto, a small volcano in the bay.

This was the main pod, but there was at least one other whale following the group from behind.

There were at least two calves in the pod.

As you can see in this photo, Auckland Harbour is narrow between the city and Devonport (where we live). According to the New Zealand Herald, the orcas were spotted at various points through the harbour this afternoon.

hooray for visitors!

I'm late in posting.....I've been sick with bronchitis, yuck...but finally I seem to be improving now that the kids are stating to get sicker.

We were thrilled to finally receive our first family visitors (although we have to admit that they planned the trip before we were even planning on moving here).  Lonnie's Aunt Vicki and Uncle Jerry came and spent a night and morning with us before heading off to more New Zealand adventures.  Maya was immediately drawn to Jerry because he is a man and he read her a book.  She pretty much wouldn't leave him alone the entire time they were with us.   I loved talking with Vicki about her work as a postpartum nurse.  I also especially loved how much Vicki's tone of voice reminded me of Lonnie's dad Lynne.

chocolate ice cream

the trip finally comes to an end.

One last post and then we will stop taunting you with photos from our trip.  
We drove up and around the eastern most part of New Zealand. There is a light house there that we had planned to climb up to, but the day was so windy we were afraid that we might lose on of our kids (or our minds trying to get them to cooperate).  So instead we settled for a picnic lunch inside the car, trying to avoid the wind.

This is where we stayed on our last night.  The view was amazing.  

Lastly we need to show appreciation for our two little terrific travelers.  Maya and Max were great on the  trip.  Even with over 18 hours of driving we only pulled out the DVD player once.  

And Max and Maya would like to thank all of the animals along the way who helped kept them entertained, especially this heard of cattle that surrounded our car.  

proud maya

I took these photos this morning after Maya slept in her big bed all night long. (I don't feel like talking about how nap time has gone the last few days).
We have had the beds for a while, but most nights the kids chose to sleep in their sleep in their travel cots (pack n' plays).  Maya was quite proud of herself when she woke up in the morning.

thank you abby and calla!

I learned a long time ago to never refuse help from young girls who dote on Max and Maya.  

At the end of Sunday meeting I know I can always find my little ones happily entertained by their doting group of girlfriends.  Max and Maya look for them as soon as we arrive at church on Sunday and would love to spend the entire day with them.

The schools are on holidays for the next two weeks and we were luck enough to have two of Max and Maya's favorite friends, Abby and Calla, come over and spend the day with us.   M & M were thrilled with the attention and I was thrilled to have some time to get things done around the house.

friends at the park

Deb and Mel were some of the first women I meet when we moved to Devonport.   Deb (Ethan's nanny) was quick to involve us in all sorts of weekly activities.  It has been fun to watch these kids get bigger over the past months.  We have lived here for more than 9 months.  I can't believe that much time has passed.   

Max, Ethan, Nakita and Maya